Bus 110 W14 Reflection

14 weeks of study x 2 classes = one stressed mom.

        I have spent the last 14 weeks trying to balance homeschooling my 4 kids, finishing my work for school, keeping my house presentable, and still being a fun wife and mother. I have to admit that I fell short more often than not. It is easy to get into a rut when I'm bored or overwhelmed. I even had to go to my doctor to help me find balance again. But I want to focus on the exciting part of this last semester - I accomplished it without making anyone hate me, and I am 2 classes closer to the finish line! 

        Taking a big step into being a student, a spouse, a parent, an employee, or starting a new job is exciting and overwhelming all at once. The best way to approach something so big is to take small, bold steps and have a plan. I tried college right after high school without a plan and literally wasted $10,000 to learn that I wasn't ready - my parents just wanted me to be ready. I took my time this time and really researched what college would do for me before committing to such a large endeavor. 

        I have spent many years trying to do what other people wanted of me. My parents continue to try to convince me to make my hobbies a business, but they have no idea how to make that happen so they are confused when I try to explain how much work that would be. I think the biggest thing I learned from the study materials this semester is to take time to plan for everything, but be willing to change the plan when things go differently. Choosing a path and sticking to it is a great plan, but make sure that you enjoy the path as you work toward the goal. Nothing in life is worth suffering through, you have to find a way to improve the situation or remove yourself to something that causes less harm and brings more joy.

        I love this graphic from The New Happy. It really shows how something that seems difficult or unappealing can become something wonderful. We have to remember to work through the hard times to see if the "color" on the other side is something we want to continue working toward. You are worth the work it takes to be happy.

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